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Social Anxiety In Children – How Parents Can Help Their Child

by Cure Anxiety
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Children who have social anxiety disorder typically have parents who chose not to acknowledge the problem. Many parents would rather ignore the issue than face it head up. Whether it is a stigma for the child who has it or whether it is a stigma for the parents, they decide that the problem will go away on its own. In actuality, the problem is bound to get worse.

It is being found that many more children are being diagnosed with this disorder and most being distinguished before their 10th birthday.

For children, symptoms are not totally specific and cannot be seen as well. In fact, children who have this disorder, they will be showing various signs that are seen with social anxiety disorder. Should you be concerned, there are several signs that need to be watched out for.

Signs That Parents Should Look For –

* Throwing tantrums
* Often crying
* Poor eye content
* Speaks softly or seldom talks
* Avoids going to school
* Wanting to be alone
* Anxiety attacks

With so many different ones, parents and children alike really need to keep a watchful eye out for those symptoms.

Once it has been diagnosed, parents can do many things that can help their child out. In many cases, parents will seek professional help in treatment options, choosing what is best for their child. However, there is a small catch. For children, there is no specific treatment plans that can be recommended by the physician. Depending on the type of social anxiety disorder the child is inflicted with and how the parents want to treat it, depends on how the child will get “well”.

In the beginning, parents will ask a professional’s help for the child’s treatment. The first approach is to try many different treatments without medication. Oddly enough, using simple socialization tactics can often times help the child more than if they were treated with medicine.

One tactic could be to place their child in a room full of people so they can be used to being in huge groups with a large stack of different activities. This is one way to get them kids to start socializing. If you put the child in a socialization structured situation with various activities, then it is the best shot to cure the social anxiety disorder without medicine.

However, if the parent has done everything possible without medication, it is time to talk to a professional and get their second opinion. In many cases of natural remedy failures, medication is recommended. Yet, this is not always the best case for the parents, the school and most of all, the student.

It does not matter how the family and child handles this disorder as long as the parents and child recognize there is a problem. Most of all, parents need to remember that there is always a reason for everything and that everything you do for your children is in there best interest so long as you are not in denial.

Abhishek Agarwal
http://www.articlesbase.com/mental-health-articles/social-anxiety-in-children-how-parents-can-help-their-child-709413.html

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3 Comments on Social Anxiety In Children – How Parents Can Help Their Child

  1. i ♥ hershey ♥ on Sat, 14th Nov 2009 12:56 am

    2. I think the best way to help is to do baby steps w/child 1 on 1♦
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  2. Name on Sat, 14th Nov 2009 12:58 am

    3. The main thing is to not deal harshly with them. People tend to get frustrated and blow up on kids with social anxiety disorder, telling them to "just get over it" or forcing them to take steps they’re not ready to take yet, further traumatizing them. I think patience is a big deal for parents trying to help their child who has social anxiety disorder. Also, parents should read about the problem so that they can better understand. For example, they could read What You Must Think of Me by Emily Ford, or even psychological literature on it. Let the child know that if s/he messes up, it’s ok. People can’t always say everything exactly right. People with social anxiety disorder would benefit, I would think, from understanding that not all of the attention is focused on them. If they make a wrong move or do something they consider stupid, it’s not like everyone in the store saw it. Even if they did, so what? Forgive yourself and try again. It’s a lot easier to say than it is to do, but the only way I’ve dealt with mine is by trying to remind myself that not everyone knows what I’m thinking, and furthermore, not everyone cares about my every move.
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  3. okay on Sat, 14th Nov 2009 8:54 am

    4. what is they best way to help a child with social anxiety?
    "how can we encourage more appropriate social behaviors? what activities are effective in helping a child develop positive social skills? What social skills are most important for a child to have?"

    - parents, doctors, and every adult are far away from ever understanding something they never had to deal with.
    someone who suffers from mild social anxiety will tell you that being shy and having this disorder are very different. When your "child" thinks about "social skills" it isnt the same as a normal outlook. i for one would rather be comfortable walking through a walmart and comfortable sitting down in a room full of ppl before i start thinking about talking to ppl.
    "put the child in more social scenes, make him/her interact."
    - its better to let your child know that it isnt their responsibility to keep a conversation going. because they always feel like what they are about to say is stupid and irrelevant. When ppl are shy they are just being their selves.
    and that is the root, children with social anxiety can never be themselves.

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