Coping With Unhealthy Stress
Everyone has stress in their lives. Stress is a natural part of life. You feel stress when you’re overworked or eat too much. Emotional stress happens when you get sick, or worry about a loved one or money or have an unpleasant event, such as a death in the family. A lot of things cause stress; natural disasters, personal problems, relationship problems, problems at work, having a policeman stop your car.
While stress is usually adverse or unpleasant, short term stress can be healthy. It helps us perform better, gives us extra energy and helps us complete things on a deadline. Anyone who has done any public speaking or attended a job interview has had a case of the butterflies. Healthy usually stress goes away after the event is over. Stress may be caused by internal or external factors.
Left unrecognized and untreated, stress can make you sick and age you. It’s essential to find out what’s causing and learn how to deal with unwanted stress. The stress goes away soon after the event is over. Unhealthy stress, on the other hand, is continuous and can cause a lot of problems. It can contribute to everything from dry mouth, depression and feelings of tiredness, irritability, disturbed sleep, weight gain or loss and even hair loss. Stress can cause anxiety, depression, hypertension, addiction and a lot of other stress related illness. People suffering from stress can have difficulty concentrating, may be easily irritated and sometimes focus on negative thoughts, avoid interacting with other people and may have a decrease in sex drive.
Stress may be caused by internal or external factors. If you experience several of these symptoms at the same time, you’re may be suffering from a great deal of stress. Stress has the potential to harm your health and emotional well-being. You should consult with your family doctor if you think you may be dealing with stress that is out of your control. The point of dealing with stress is to be pro-active. If you do nothing to reduce or relieve the stress your health may be negatively affected. Left nrecognized and treated, stress can make you sick and age you. It’s essential to ask what’s causing and how to reduce the unwanted stress.
Dealing or coping with stress varies from person to person. Some stress can be a good thing, but sometimes it becomes necessary to find a way to master stress that is causing you to suffer. Sometimes a person has to stop trying to do everything and must learn to just say no.
Stress can be dealt with using medicine, hypnosis, exercise or self-destructive ways such as alcohol or drugs. Meditation Exercise is the most simple, readily available and easiest way to beat stress. In addition to dealing with stress, exercise is a way to loose weight and improve your mental and physical health. Another way to cope is to take an hour every day and engage in some activity that takes your mind off the cause of the stress. Work at a favorite hobby, or get a part-time job as a janitor in a department store (like I did) and sweep floors for several hours at night.
There is a lot of help for people who want to change the stress levels in their life. If you’re dealing with a lot of stress, see your doctor. Find a good listener to talk about things that’s causing you stress. The point is to do something that relieves the stress without resorting to a self-destructive activity.
There’s a lot of good information from the American Heart Association that can help guide you in dealing with unhealthy stress levels. The American Heart Association is a national voluntary health agency to help reduce disability and death from cardiovascular diseases and stroke.
The point is to do something that will relieve the stress without resorting to a self-destructive activity. Find something that will work to reduce your stress level, work at it and above all, don’t give up.
Marshall Crum
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looking_east1122 on
Fri, 19th Feb 2010 2:53 am
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Smitty on
Fri, 19th Feb 2010 2:55 am
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Sunny J on
Fri, 19th Feb 2010 10:51 am
Let it be as it is.
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Stress is because you’re resisting what is.
First of all you need an outlet for your built up stress. You have been internalizing your feelings, thoughts and opinions, especially when it comes to your parents. Go to student services or a counselor and request a referral to a therapist for your stress.
-1-Write in a diary everything you feel and keep it on your person-close to you. I mean cruse if you want say what is on your mind.
-2-Write poetry at the time you shut down as you said usually right after your parents scowl you-because they are not communicating with you. It takes two people to communicate-which is a dialog between two are more people.
-3-Write a letter to your parents but do not show it to them-this is a technique usually used for people whose parents are no longer living.
Right now you are getting emotionally, physically and psychologically sick because you are not getting rid of those toxic words that your parents are feeding you.
You have taken back the power by seeking help so don’t stop there continue to be proactive with your mental health.
Look for teen support services in your state make the web your best friend it has a wealth of information.
Good luck parents can be toxic too there not perfect!
References :
suicide hotlines.com
department of health (in your state most services are free or at low cost)
Divison of Mnental Health
Parents causing unhealthy stress.. HELP!!!?
1st year starting college, 5 years tuition paid for, and $1200 a month and I have to pay 60% of that back. I’m 17, and my parents are charging me $600 a month for rent now all of a sudden. I’ll try to make this short. They get mad at me whenever I point something out and say "I wish I had that", because for some reason they think I’m just going to buy it. I’ve tried numerous times to explain to them that I have a good history of saving my money and spending it very, very wisely. Somehow, they just ignore logic and they don’t lecture me, they yell at me.
I’m not the type of person to argue. I just moved here from a very, very small town so I have pretty much no social skills when it comes to meeting people. So the fact that my parents always get mad at me unnecessarily and I have a very hard time making friends doesn’t help me when it comes to managing stress.
The reason why I made this question is… Within the first 2 days of college, the stress has been so bad that I’ve been experiencing severe pain on the left side of my chest, for about 10-15 minutes. Also, I get very bad head rushes, and I get dizzy randomly. It’s starting to scare me, and I am become very depressed and somewhat suicidal again (I used to be severely depressed since I was 11, but I never told anyone). Is there anything I can do to help cope with this stress? I really don’t want to take pills or anything and I refuse to try to talk to them anymore. Now when they argue with me, I literally just don’t say a word to them, I just wait till they’re done and I walk away.
So please help me. Thanks in advance everyone.
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