Women Should Use The Help Of God To Manage Their Fears

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Sometimes, your fears may overwhelm you to the point that you feel like giving up. When this happens, the next step is to put your faith in God. Using the help of God can make a big difference in overcoming your fears, anxieties, and depression.

The one source that a women should use as a basis in managing their fears and anxieties is using God as a basis in dealing with their fears. The power of God is the one power that is stronger than your fears and anxieties. Also, God loves each one of us and he is the one person who has the power to solve all of our problems. He will help you if you ask him to.

Start talking and praying to God. A person can go to church or to a quiet place during the day to tell God that they are having a problem. They should tell God how they feel and ask God for some of his help. A person could also review the Bible and read some articles on trusting in God and then apply these concepts in their life. Each and every day, a person should make it up a habit to talk to God and ask for his help.

In addition, learn as much as you can in managing anxiety and depression. There are many books and information that will educate you on how to deal with fear and anxiety. Share this information with others who may be able to help you. Education is the key in finding the answers your looking for in managing your fears.

Think positive. A good way to manage your fear is to challenge your negative thinking with positive statements and realistic thinking. When encountering thoughts that make you feel fearful or anxious, challenge those thoughts by asking yourself questions that will maintain objectivity and common sense.

In every anxiety-related situation you experience, begin to learn what works, what does not work, and what you need to improve on in managing your fears and anxieties. For instance, you have a lot of anxiety and you decide to take a walk to help you feel better. The next time you feel anxious you can remind yourself that you got through it the last time by taking a walk. This will give you the confidence to manage your anxiety the next time around.

Sometimes, it helps to be able to talk to someone about our stressful situations. Talking to a trusted friend, counselor, or clergyman can not only make us feel better, but they might be able to give you additional advice and insights on how to deal with your current problem. Getting help from a professional will make this entire process easier and will increase your chances of success.

Remember that God is stronger than your fears and anxieties. Be persistent and be open in the avenues that God may provide to you in solving your problem. It is not always easy, however God is in control and he will help you if you ask him.

Stanley Popovich
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9 Comments on Women Should Use The Help Of God To Manage Their Fears

  1. Little Angel on Thu, 18th Mar 2010 12:00 pm

    2. sometimes men need a second wife like Abraham but they should never leave their first wife to do so…you should stay with him b/c you two have a child together and your child would be sad if you all seperated
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  2. free_angel on Thu, 18th Mar 2010 12:02 pm

    3. Just divorce him already. If you stay with him, you will always have a hard life and he’ll never amount to anything.
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  3. Contemplative on Thu, 18th Mar 2010 12:04 pm

    4. I would contact a women’s shelter and express your dilemma and see what resources they have -legal help- so you can get advice. You must get a lawyer’s input first, and a consultation is typically free.

    The threats your husband is making are very serious, so you can also call a hot line for domestic abuse they’re free.
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  4. Miss Blue & Ruby too. on Thu, 18th Mar 2010 12:06 pm

    5. Oh my goodness, listen to the first answer and you’re in for a life of hell. What kind of freaking advice is that?

    I didn’t read it all because i think the fact that he had a long term affair from the start of your marriage says it all.

    That and down the bottom "he was going to kill me and then himself" shows he is a low life form.

    Good luck.
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  5. ladyindica on Thu, 18th Mar 2010 12:08 pm

    6. This man has done this to you and your son and you are worried about the boy’s pets? Aren’t you worried about what he thinks of you or his father? Aren’t you scared that he will see all women as weak individuals that will take anything from a man as long as he pays the bills? Lady, if my husband did that to me, I would be on the first bus to my family if I had to put a tin cup down and sing on a corner to get the money. Shame on you. Get your stuff together and show your son what happens when a man does the things his dad did.
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  6. Super D on Thu, 18th Mar 2010 12:10 pm

    7. I would find the job in Texas first, as you are not too far from Tyler, from Woodville. Meaning you can find a job there, and make base as close to home as possible. It’s cheaper to live in that side of Texas, so getting by will not be that big, once you get a job lined up. That way you can find a rent house where you can move your son, dog and cat. Then get the ride, and get out of there.
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  7. Elizabeth on Thu, 18th Mar 2010 12:12 pm

    8. Please email me,,,,I had a friend that went thru a very simular thing, she is from Texas and moved to North Carolina and went thru the exact same thing except her hubby was white..and her children thank God are healthy but the mental abuse and lies and cheating started before she ever moved and never stopped once she got there and he always justified what he did, or would even joke about it….he is a LOOSER!!!

    Get away from this A** hole
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  8. Ashley O on Thu, 18th Mar 2010 12:14 pm

    9. Your Answer:
    when people realize that their manipulations of others comes to an end they get really really, extreme. You have been thru hell and back thru your marriage and I am sure you never looked at your husband as the type of man who would do this sort of thing to you. Is it possible that he married you to become a citizen? and had a child for the pretense of love? This is really really sad. You have been manipulated for your entire, marriage…….I don’t know what else you need for grounds for leaving him. You are resentful towards him, but if you just eat it, and internalize it you WILL be an overweight 50 year old with no life. What type of life will you two have together? You may or may not meet someone else to love long term but my guess is its a good chance that you will. Overweight or not. Do for self, go for a few walks and take care of yourself, eat right, dont do anything too drastic to lose the weight. I dont think you necessarily have to live in WOODVILLE you can live in tyler like someone suggested. The houses in TYLER ARE RIDICULOUSLY CHEAP you can rebuild yourself in about 2 years. As far as finding a job check craigslist, and if you need to have your items shipped and take your son on the bus by all means get the heck out of there.

    Why would you allow yourself to be held hostage by a man who has thought of himself your E-N-T-I-R-E MARRIAGE. And the fact that he sent this b -itch on vacation with you and your son tells me that he shows little regard for you or for him. How did you find out? And r you sure that she was deported? or went back voluntarily to mexico? Your husband has little regard for your mental capacity. If he could do all these things to you and become so enraged and surprised at the thought that you have enough brain cells to conjure up leaving his a s s, he threatens you with killing you and himself? And what of his son that needs medical treatment son? You can get a lengthly restraining order with that. You may or may not want to do that and you probably wont but you have to do what you have to do. If he is going to step all over you the e-n-t-i-r-e marriage and not want you to be happy then try to manipulate you into staying with him, please he is a low, SAAD EXCUSE FOR A MAN.

    Do you know how many bilingual people they need in texas?? Good luck
    You better call the state department and find out what options they have for you, section 8, low income housing? the first step is to find a domestic abuse shelter and talk to them. They will assist you.

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  9. Mrs. Smith on Thu, 18th Mar 2010 7:58 pm

    10. Should I stay or Go? Husband had long term affair.?
    I am a 41 year old married women, my husband and I have one child together who is 8 years old and is a "Severe Brittle Diabetic", he was diagnosed at age 6. A few months prior to our son being diagnosed with Type 1 Diabetes I discovered that my husband and our mutual friend had been loveres since the time of our marriage, which is about 6 years. This lady was also his underling at work, they are painters and also are Mexican Nationals. I am American.

    This lady was my friend and helped me around the house and also did a lot of childcare for us in our home. I did favors for her and her family such as I leased a nice house for her and her adult son to live in three houses down from our family home because they had been living in a trailer with cockroaches. When I took our son to Disneyworld at age 6 I invited this lady to go with us, and she did. My husband stayed home but "sent" her with me and our little boy on vacation. Of course I did not know she was his lover, If I had known that I would have driven her straight to the Mexican Border and threw her back to her "third world country", she was here illegally as is my husband.

    When I discovered the truth about my husband and his Adultery I was devastated. The lady he had been with left the country that very day and I never had the chance to speak to her regarding her relationship with my husband, that of course was for the best as I wanted to kill her for the first month and probably would have physically attacked her If I had located her. I have struggled with horrible depression and tormenting thoughts ever since finding out, I oftentimes feel like my life is over with and that I’m ruined.

    About the time I found out our financial situation began a "nose dive" into the proverbial "toilet" and now we are broke. Our cars were taken away, we lost our home. The constuction jobs in Myrtle Beach came to a screeching halt and although my husband works very hard and is dilligent we don’t even have our $550 dollar rent money for September. I have not worked since our son was diagnosed because it’s been a full-time job keeping him alive and he had a very dangerous time at school becuase he did not have the right kind of help in managing Diabetes and Diabetes related emergencys. Now though the school district has provided him with a full-time Nurse at school and at least when I drop him off he has protection.

    I’m extremely hateful at times to my husband because he disgusts me and I have no respect for him at all, although I have tried to give it into the hands of GOD and allow GOD to heal me it seems that my husband has not truly changed in the aspect that he will still tell a "lie" now and then and then justify himself as all liars do. So in addition to all these things I’ve gained 150 pounds, so now I’m middle aged and fat and broke.

    I have a dream to move to Woodville, Texas where my elderly Mother and sister live however they are not in a position to take us in and my Mother said that we could not bring my son’s dog and cat. Also I am concerned that I’m being selfish to take my son away from his Dad, I fear that it will break his heart and hurt him beyond my ability to repair.

    But I don’t know what to do I am so desperate to leave this city and state, I want to go live near the few relatives that we have and I’m not sure If I’m just being a "dreamer" or not. I have no car, no job, no money, my little boy and I would probably have to try and live in a "long term" Womens shelter in the Woodville area and just build a life from nothing. This again would mean that my son would lose his dog and cat who he loves like siblings. I know that my Mother and sister would put us up in their small house but they live 8 miles from the school and without a car I would not be able to take my son to school and pick him up. Not only that but Woodville is a very small town and the jobs are few in number so it will probably be a real "crap-shoot" to get a decent job. I worked as a Pay-day loan manager/Check Casher and have office experience, I’m also bi-lingual and speak spanish.

    I fear that the years will just go by and nothing will change here with my husband and I’ll wake up an overweight 50 year old with no life. We have no family here in South Carolina and my grown daughter and grandson live in Los Angeles so I feel that Texas is much closer than South Carolina for at least once a year visits. The thing is that I don’t know If I have a right to take our son to Texas and leave my husband behind. He told me that he was going to kill me and then kill himself.

    When my husband told me that he was going to kill me and then himself I was raging at him over another of his lies and I told him that I would kill him If he "betrayed" me again in any way. So now what? Am I a "domestic abuser"….or is he? It seems to me that Adultery for our entire marriage, financial fraud against me and telling me I am "crazy" for years is some kind of abuse, perhaps mental a

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